Recipe for Success

by Deborah A. Bailey

My mom usually makes pies for Thanksgiving. This year I wrote a couple of recipes down just in case I decided to try them for myself. The reason I haven't done it so far is because I know my pie won't taste the same as hers. We may follow the same recipe, but the result won't be the same. Each person puts something a little different into the thing they're creating.

It might be a bit of a stretch to compare pies to businesses or careers, but in this case I think it's similar. Everyone brings a part of themselves into everything they do. It doesn't matter if there are already other people doing that work - you will bring something to it that no one else can. It also doesn't matter how many other people are in your industry. What you will bring to it will be uniquely your own.

During this time of year there's always a lot of introspection about where we've been and where we're heading. It's easy to get discouraged if we think we can't compete with people who are already doing what we want to do - or we think we are entering a seemingly overcrowded field. When I was afraid to move forward, I was always finding reasons why I should stay put. Thankfully I didn't let any of them stop me. In the end, it didn't matter who else was already in my field. I'm not in competition with any of them. My knowledge and my experience means I can bring a perspective that no one else will ever have.

So I guess it's okay if my pie doesn't taste like my mom's. Her pie doesn't taste like my grandmother's. Each of us can add something to the mix that is uniquely her own.

Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

Copyright © 2007 - 2009 Deborah A. Bailey

Deborah A. Bailey is author of two non-fiction books including, “Think Like an Entrepreneur: Transforming Your Career and Taking Charge of Your Life .” She's also the creator and host of Women Entrepreneurs Radio, a weekly internet talk show. Her fiction work includes a short story collection and a novel, available on 
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